By Action Coach Dave Beam
I love this analogy because it captures so many principles of effective delegation. To create effective results in relationships, start dancing and quit wrestling!
Many business owners and managers struggle and strain with delegation. They have the mindset that to be effective, you have to overpower your employees and force them into submission. It is literally a wrestling match and the starting bell rings at the beginning of each shift or day. It is a contest of will and strategy. Sometimes your “best” employee is the strongest, the most talented, and the most self willed. You feel like if you let up for a moment, “they” will gain the advantage. Or you just “give in” and let them “have their way”.
Enough is enough! Who has the energy or the desire to run their business or department like a military camp? There is a better and more effective way to manage, and it follows the analogy of dancing vs. wrestling.